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Monday, September 21, 2009

Great Dating Ideas Are Everywhere!

Posted by patrick

By Alan Bentley

Just think about it " you have met a great guy, someone who really excites you. Could this be the man of your dreams? Now you need to think about the next couple of months. Present your best side to him. In short order, you need to think of some great dating ideas.

You should try and be yourself as much as possible during the early process of building a new relationship. Although it is normal to be a little jumpy and think that you need to be the one with all the good ideas, just relax and enjoy these first few weeks or months as they unfold.

After one or two dates, you really ought to find out what drives him. What is he interested in and does he have any hobbies? Pay particular attention at this stage as you will be able to come up with some great dating ideas. Maybe he has a favorite recording artist or rock band, for example. If so, get on the computer and find out where and when the artist is going to be performing. Make some reservations and go along, paying particular attention to the performance, showing a keen interest throughout.

Try and build some rapport between you by engaging in something really worthwhile. He will really respectful you if you come up with a good idea, such as volunteering to help support a local charity or another good cause of some kind.

If you live in a city with a wide variety of culinary attractions, go out of your way to find something unusual that neither of you has tried before. Of course you do need to ask some subtle questions to see that he has no particular food allergies or particular distaste, but having said that, look forward to a great treat on the town.

You don't always have to go out of the house when you are thinking about great dating ideas. There could be a project ready to tackle at your place or his. For example, the garage could need a makeover or a spare room could do with redecorating. This date might be hard work or even develop into several!

Holidays are fodder for coming up with great dating ideas. if you are creative, you will be able to think of a lot of fun times surrounding Thanksgiving, Halloween, Easter or any other festive occasions.

Avoid the mundane at all costs when you are in the first phase of a romance. Much effort should be put into coming up with great dating ideas, as if you don't, your relationship could be short-lived. Both parties need to be innovative but don't hang around to see what he will do. Get your thinking cap on!

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