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Friday, July 31, 2009

How To Tone Arms With Your Thoughts

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By Katherine Crawford M.S.

Trying to tone arms without optimizing your thought processes is like trying to drive a car across the country without any gas in the tank. As Seth Godin puts it, the dip prevents most people from reaching their goals.

What is the dip? In a nutshell, it's the setbacks you will face when trying to reach your sexy arm goal. And most women are UNABLE to get over their dips.

Why does this happen so frequently? Because we live in a culture obsessed with one-hit wonders. When in reality, the key to sexy arm success is the ability to sustain motivation for prolonged periods of time.

You shouldn't be running motivational sprints, you should be running motivational marathons. So without further ado, here are 4 tips to survive the marathon to tone arms:

1. Apply anger for short bursts of activity. Too much chronic anger will set back your goals many steps. It simply causes too many counterproductive reactions in the female body. However, if you can control its output to short periods of time, then it can work wonders.

2. Don't be a perfectionist. If you're waiting for all the stars to be perfectly aligned before taking action, expect to wait for a very long time. Meanwhile, many women will be on their way to sexy arm stardom. Remember, if you want to tone arms, the majority of your results will come from the ability to just keep on going.

3. Set deadlines for all mini-goals, not just the big ones. We have been conditioned our entire lives to respond to deadlines. Why would your goal to tone arms be any different? Without a deadline, your sexy arm dream will be just that-a dream. Set an INSANE deadline which will force you to focus on only the most critical components.

4. Expose yourself to what you fear, a lot. If you do this, you'll become desensitized to whatever it is you're fearing. Fear defeated! The key here is to not go into shell shock. Make sure you take baby steps so that you become acclimatized incrementally.

If you want to tone arms, don't go around in circles by only focusing on diet and exercise. You have to optimize your thought processes to ensure long term success. And this is where most women fail. Although clich, it really is all in your head!

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Keep Moving

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By Michael Angier

The sailboat was coming slowly into the marina under power. There was a south wind blowing about 15-20 knots, and it was beginning to rain. The helmsman appeared confident and had several crew aboard, so I elected not to walk over to the other dock and offer assistance. But I kept an eye out just in case.

As the skipper made the turn into his slip he slowed even more-so much so that he stopped. It was then that the wind pushed his bow around and, before his crew could fend off, slammed it into the end of the dock. With another go-around, they recovered and eventually tied up safe and secure. The hull's gel coat probably wasn't damaged nearly as much as the pride of her skipper.

Always wanting to learn from my own or others' mistakes, I thought about what happened and how it could have been avoided. In my opinion, this skipper violated one of the basic principles of seamanship: keep the boat moving.

In his well-intended effort to be cautious, he lost steerage because the boat stopped its forward motion. Without water flowing past the rudder, he had no ability to direct his vessel. You don't need much headway, but you need enough to make the rudder responsive-to maintain control.

Our lives are not ships, but it's a good metaphor. Safe in harbor, we need times of rest and reflection where action is not required. But in the marketplace, when we take action, we need to be doing enough to give us headway-enough to guide and control our forward motion-to maintain momentum.

When we're moving ahead, we see things we wouldn't see at rest. We experience events that otherwise wouldn't have occurred. Oftentimes, the goal we start out to accomplish turns out not to be what we wanted but instead leads us along our true path. All because of our forward motion.

A universal principle states that, "a body in motion tends to remain in motion." Conversely, a body at rest tends to remain at rest. And as we saw in the story of the sailboat, we can be blown about by all manner of things that can, and most often are, contrary to our intention.

When we rest, we should rest, but when the time comes for action, keep moving!

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Ease the Pain of Relationship Trouble

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By Lynn Huber

Every couple in the world wants to feel secure, happy and comfortable with their relationship. If you think, you have reached this particular stage, then good for you. It is relative. It actually depends on how you see happiness, comfort and stability of a relationship to be. The depth and meaning of every person's description of happiness and comfort is inflated when the relationship goes through a series of trials and still comes out victorious. You get happy when you are in love, you become even happier when after all the heartache and pain, you still end up in each other's arms.

None of us can get past the fact that we all have relationship troubles. It's all part of learning about each other. Too-good-to-be-true kind of relationships will still encounter difficulties no matter what. There is no marriage nor a relationship made in heaven. Assuming trouble and dealing with it at a completely different perspective is the key to a stronger and more productive relationship.

Trouble can either make or break us. However, most couples deal with trouble in a way that can break both of them. Do you want to end up still troubled and disillusioned after having some kind or level of trouble? On the other hand, do you want to learn from the trouble, get better and grow in order to avoid any like trouble-making situations?

One of the most frustrating tasks in a relationship is how to fix a relationship in trouble. Relationship problems come at varying degrees. Whether your partner has cheated you various times over or perhaps you have been too selfish in looking to your needs than your mate's needs, one thing remains the same - there is trouble and you need to fix it straightaway before the problem explodes and leaves you into bits and pieces.

Accepting and Defense

Much of the time, couples fail to accept the problem. They try to cover-up and pretend that nothing is wrong. The minute you sense that there is trouble coming your way deal with it right away. You need to communicate and talk about what you think and feel. Perhaps, you will see that after all, you only lack communication that is why there is trouble. Remember, communication is the blood that flows in a relationship. Without it, there is no mutual growth.

Pridefulness and Humility

If you remain to insist that you are right without even hearing his/her side, you are tailing after the wind. The main check on how to fix trouble in a relationship is pride, resulting to resistance and conflict.

Opposition and Submission

The plan to fix relationship trouble works well when both partners learn to accept and submit as well as forgive and forget. Of course, it is easier said than done but the more you resist,the more you fall and get into more trouble.

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Thursday, July 30, 2009

Different Ways to Relax

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By Jason Kamen

Each of us has our own idea about what is the perfect day of relaxing. Like snowflakes, no two people's ideas are exactly the same, although they may be very similar. Relaxation is important not just for our happiness but for health as well.

The easiest way to relax can be to just sit on a nice bench and think. When you are sitting down, all your responsibilities seem to drift away and you can think about whatever you want. You can also lie down, which makes life physically and mentally equally good.

Relaxation can take the form of activities that don't initially seem relaxing, such as a sport. When participating in an activity, you get the positive results of a relaxing time while getting things done.

Nearly everybody has an interest in one sport or another, whether it is basketball, football, baseball, or something less known. Participating in a sport relieves stress, as does any physical activity, and it is also a great way to connect with other people.

Whenever you are sitting around or doing work, one can easily incorporate music in to whatever they are doing. Music naturally relaxes people, although all individuals have their own favorite pieces of work.

We have all heard that thirty minutes to an hour of exercise a day is critical for our body's health, and part of this is that exercise is relaxing. Whenever you exercise, endorphins are released which naturally relax you. Exercise does not necessarily mean a trip to the gym, as it can comprise only of walking.

Chinese monks are known for practicing meditation, which is an advanced and deeper relaxation and enlightenment method. People who become adept at meditation have a stronger control over their mind and are generally more disciplined. Meditation definitely takes a fair amount of practice, but it is worth it if you can master the technique.

Finally, you can get a lot of stress relief from a weekly or monthly massage, as massages are known to be very destressing. Living an unrelaxed life has driven millions of people to early graves. If you want to escape this fate, dedicate yourself to relaxing a few times a day.

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By Joseph Matthews

Having trouble picking up women? Have no fear! All you need to do is follow a few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start? Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)

Understand: Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic! You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let's get started!

First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women. You DON'T need to be "male model" good looking. This is the biggest mistake men make. You have to realize that close to 85% of women care more about how a man makes them FEEL, rather than how he actually LOOKS.

So if you don't think you're a very attractive guy, don't worry! There's still hope for you.

Another thing is - you DON'T need to spend lots of cash or drive flashy cars! Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date - heck, some of them don't even own a car! (And if they do, it usually isn't a very nice one!)

You'll find that women can be very don't care when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Finally, you DON'T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

Look - No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters. You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you're just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you'll find your success with women will dramatically improve.

There's a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

The structure is: Find the girl. Approach and meet her. Talk and Gain Rapport. Build Attraction.

These four simple steps is all you need! You'll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you'll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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Learn How To Save Your Marriage

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By Sabrina Summerfield

Is your marriage in danger? Do you and your spouse spend the majority of your time fighting and arguing? Or have things gotten so bad that you don't even talk to one another anymore? If you still love your spouse and want to save your marriage you will need to take immediate action in order to avoid further hurt or even divorce.

Out of all the tactics that can be used to save a marriage, communication is vital! A couple who sits down and actually discusses their issues may be able to work through their problems without further aid or assistance. In fact, a simple conversation can go a long way in saving a couples marriage. The problem is that in most instances both members of the couple will not agree to do this.

The problem with most couples is that they are far beyond talking when they first start to take action to save their marriage. Therefore, they will generally need to set up a visit to a trained family or couples psychologist in order to work out their problems and save their marriage. However, these counseling services are very expensive and generally have to be attended for months and even years to see results.

The main issue is that the majority of couples who are experiencing problems will choose to ignore their issues. Many couples do this to avoid further arguing and to also avoid having to deal with one another. There however is a hidden danger to ignoring problems. Problems will generally continue to grow and will not fade away.

If you are truly serious and are looking to save your marriage you will need to speak to your spouse and get them to agree with you that you have a problem and that it needs to be fixed. Both parties must be willing to work through their issues, and they must both agree that they are each to blame for the situation. If you and your spouse are not willing to seek help together, the chances of your marriage being saved will decrease.

The bottom line is that you should never ignore your problems and that the moment you discover any problems you should seek action without delay. In doing so you can prevent further problems and can quickly discover how to save your marriage. Whether you seek out the assistance of a marriage counselor or choose to work out your problems between one another, there is hope if you put work behind your actions.

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

How To Deal With A Break Up And Overcome A Broken Heart

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By Anne Torres

Mending a broken heart

Sometimes your life goes to crap, and there's nothing you can do about it. He or she, seems to be oblivious to what they are missing out on. Besides this, you've opened your tender heart and they've smashed it to bits. This happens, and, its the worst feeling on earth.

So, besides precluding it, which I talk about allot in this book which is little comfort for you now, what are you going to do about it? The first thing is to cut yourself some slack, give yourself some time out from work and get busy doing something on your own. Depression seeps into our bones if we let it, and that's the last thing you want right now.

The second thing is not to embarrass yourself by begging and scraping. Acknowledge to yourself that they are just not into you, and that it's finished. Hanging on just makes it worse, the best chance you've got for getting them back is leaving them alone and getting on with your life, getting happy over again. To do this, you'll need to know how.

To let someone go, you have to admit how much you love them. That's the opposite to most therapies and self help books. Instead of trying to jam it up your ex, or turn them into a frog, love more. You'll be so surprised how easy it is and how effective. You just need to separate NEEDING them from LOVING them.

Needing your ex is a huge difference to loving them. The minute we say "gee I miss so and so" we've dropped into the hungry vulture phase in heart break.

Some people spend their whole lives picking at the carcass of their dead past relationship, wishing it would re start. Needing someone, is nice and intimate while you are committed to each other, but when and if it breaks, you have to take that neediness back.

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Guidelines In Fixing Broken Romances

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By Becky Johnson

Being broken-hearted is a very painful process, and sometimes too unbearable to some people. Just think of the time, effort and emotions invested into a relationship gone to waste.

Before you make the effort to learn how to fix a broken relationship it is a good idea to spend time putting some serious thought into whether or not it is even worth fixing. Sometimes loving the other person simply isnt enough, especially if the pain that comes with a relationship outweighs the pleasure.

Take a break

Anybody who has learned from experience how to fix a broken relationship will advise you to give it at least a month or two before you attempt to do anything. You may be tempted to phone your ex right away and talk to them, but this is the biggest mistake you can make. First of all even though you may be missing your ex you are probably still angry with them, and vice versa. There is no point trying to discuss anything until you have both had a chance to calm down and think. Furthermore if you plead with your ex or act desperate you will push them away.

Most people who had been in a broken relationship have learned that the initial step is to concentrate first on yourself. This might sound self-serving but it's not! Take time to ponder what went wrong. Deliberate the pros and cons of your relationship. See if your happiness with your lover outweighs all the hardship and sufferings that comes with it. In this way, you can have a picture whether what you had is worth letting go or worth saving. In the meantime, relax and pamper yourself if you have to. Being with friends and doing activities you enjoy most will make it easier for you to consider your decision.

Restore Communication

After a month or so, it's time to go to the next step --- bringing back good communication. Begin with a friendly text message, phone call or an e-mail. See if your ex has a good disposition towards you. If he/she does, invite your ex to meet up in a neutral setting. It is best to prepare yourself. Be honest but not tactful. Express your feelings with kind words and avoid offensive languages. Respect his point of views and criticize constructively if you have to. As you chat, focus on your purpose and do not let your emotions control your conversation.

Fixing a broken relationship is not that easy. There may be hundred articles on saving destroyed romances but in the end, it's up to you to apply what were recommended. The main recipe is to understand one's self in handling such situation and to have an open communication between the couple.

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Heartbroken Poem To help You Recover From Break Up

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By Otto Cannon

If you have ever been thru a unhappy break up with someone you've love, you will have written a heartbroken poem. You may have even written such a poem for stuff like the loss of a pet or a family member, unhappiness at moving away from your friends, or any quantity of unhappy life events. But it seems nothing affects such sad poetry as a break-up or divorce. Just as few things inspire love poetry quite like being in a chuffed, loving relationship.

Poetry is a brilliant medium for self-expression. Unless you are creating poetry with the expectation of having it revealed one day, you can write poetry however you like. It does not need to be good poetry. You do not need to appreciate any of the poetic terms or conventions like rhyme, meter or free verse. You do not even have to have ever read a fairly good poem in your life to draft a heartbroken poem that can help you feel better and maybe help you heal from the discomfort of a split.

An critical early step in getting over a break up or any unhappy situation is simply facing the pain. While it might feel better to avoid working with the actuality of the situation, you cannot truly move past it without facing it and feeling the discomfort, at least for a while. So facing up to whatever painful situation is occurring is necessary. A sad poem will help you deal with those agonizing feelings when you've split with someone you love.

Don't worry about whether it's good or not. No-one else ever has to read your sad poem. It's for you and you alone. Just write down your feelings, as hard as that may be. You can write in plain language. Don't try and imitate the poets of the 17th and 18th century. Write like you talk, and break the lines where it feels natural to you. Essentially, you can start by writing one huge paragraph stuffed with all your feelings and everything you would like to express, simply to get it out. Then you can go back and prepare your thoughts and feelings into a poem.

Once you have written a heartbroken poem, you may want to scribble more about different parts of the agony. That is good. Get down everything you can, and that will help you to face the pain. Writing the poetry will probably be a very emotional time for you. Don't try to stop it. Just let the pain out and you'll be better ready to go on.

If you decide you would like to share your heartbroken poem, you can show family or mates. Or if you want to share it but not with anybody you know, you can put it on the internet. There are web sites designed just for such things. You can upload your poetry free and let other folks know if you'd like to receive criticism or not. You may choose to not receive comments on your sad poem and just enjoy the fact that you've shared your experience.

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Review of Guy Gets Girl

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By Maurice Jackson

If you wanted to know what's inside Guy Gets Girl because you have heard of it and are thinking of getting it, then this review is for you!

I was able to recently have a look at this book, which has 3 volumes to give it a quick review.

What really makes Guy Gets Girl different is that unlike other pickup and dating books around, this one is written by a lady. This is the only seduction book I have come across written by a lady who wants to show guys how to get other women into bed! This is fantastic!

Guy Gets Girl gives you great information about how a woman's mind works. The author spends a great deal of time explaining to the reader that to women, what they are feeling is the same as logical reasoning. Therefore, if a woman feels something, then she'll have to act on that feeling. This will be the case even if they know the feelings they are getting are totally irrational and have no logic to back it up.

It comes as a good thing for men that women do not use rational logic when they make decisions. This is because you'll be able to learn from Tiffany, who teaches you how to use mind games to make a woman attracted to you by switching on attraction switches in her head.The theory goes like this, all you need to do is just turn on the attraction triggers in her head and you'll be able to generate some attraction towards you.

There are also interesting topics apart from understanding women, such as learning how to read and understand the use of body language to make you a better seducer.

There are actually three volumes to the ebook and they are divided as:

* Guy Gets Girl For Beginners * Guy Gets Girl For Intermediate Readers * Guy Gets Girl For Advanced Players

Although there is no need to read it in that exact order, having said that there are instances where you will flick back to the other volumes to refresh your memory.

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How To Attract Women Today! Come and Find Out How!

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By Maurice Jackson

Do you want to know how to attract women?

The good thing to know is that there are no hard and fast rules that dictate whether or not you can or cannot attract women.

However, that's also a bad thing!

These are only some general rules that I suggest you follow, but I can't say if you do you will get laid every time.

What I can provide you with is a list of common elements that women in general find attractive. If you have these qualities in your personality, then you will attract women.

Attracting women does not require money, good looks or anything that the media says you need. Having the cars and houses and good looks doesn't do you any harm though.

So the things you need to know in order learn how to attract women are:

*You let her know that you are interested more than being just a friend: What's the reason for this being so? If you find yourself in the friend zone, then you will be in the wrong part of a woman's mind. You will not be in a place where you are considered to be romantic relationship material. I do not know why. It just so happens in that way.

*You let her know that youre a man " Girls like guys acting like guys. So why do guys act like women? I must be with the idea that society brain washes you to believe that somehow you need to be that type of metro sensitive male. But you know

Women have been drawn to men who were acting like guys for well since the beginning of time!

If you stopped acting like a metrosexual guy you would be more successful with women!

* You come across as a high status male: Like I said before, girls like guys who act like they are guys. But why is this the case? Because these men display a higher status by acting like men! Relax, no cash or car is required to show this!

You just need to show her that you have traits that make her think you are a high status guy!

That was just a quick list of things you might want to know if you want to learn about attraction! Check out this article here: Learn How To Attract Women

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Working With A Physics Tutor Can Create A Competitive Edge, Which Will Help You Achieve Your Goals

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By John Fishman

Physics is an interesting subject anyone would wish to master. The significance of this amusing study can be seen in our day-to-day life. All pupils show extreme enthusiasm towards this course but in majority of the cases this spirit is present only for a short span of time making the student fear the concepts

With the right degree of interest one can become knowledgeable in physics but a large number of students get vexed with learning the subject as it is filled with difficult concepts. And it is very much burdensome for a school teacher to give attention to each and every pupil of the class and make sure that he/she gets high results. Analyzing the theories of physics is very easy for those who possess that aptitude but for other kids it is a herculean task.

A tutor is a good idea even for a skilled pupil. However a tutor is much needed for every student who wants to understand the subject but cannot relate to it.

A physics tutor can perform this job perfectly. Having all the right knowledge required to make the theories easily comprehensible, tutors are very much capable of exhibiting the desired results.

Taking the help of a physics tutor is very much beneficial for all sorts of pupils. The student who is truly interested in it gets to know everything about the science through the tutor. The pupil who wants to learn physics just to earn more marks also enjoys the benefit as he is trained up in such a way that he achieves what he needs.

The beneficial aspect of hiring a physics tutor is that abundant attention will be provided to the student. The tutor is aware of various techniques of making the student analyze the principles of physics.

Apart from giving a detailed account on the operation of a device or a theory, a tutor also explains his/her uses in reality. Thus, he transforms the act of studying into a more interesting one, making sure that the students enthusiasm in the subject does not get subdued.

children who have the zeal to master physics sans the knowledge have highly benefited utilizing the guidelines of trainers. One can be very much sure that physics tutors would help him/her completely in shaping up his/her career in science and in putting them on the best track in the perfect manner.

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Monday, July 27, 2009

A Complete Guide To Masonic Education - Freemasons

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By Simon Gray

There are several individuals who are interested in becoming a Mason but just aren?t sure how to go about it. To begin with, they must first reach the criteria that they set out. This means that they must be sound in mind and body. This is the term used from the old day and is not literal as it applied to the current Freemasons. Then they must of course be male. He must have a good background and a belief in God. (This is dependant on the Lodge, some say God other say Supreme Being). There are several informal requirements as well. The candidate?s personal beliefs are important . He must believe in the importance of helping his fellow man. Must have a respect for what others think whether he agrees with them or not. Finally, he must have the desire to excel in his good qualities.

It would seem that one of the rules of being a Mason is that you are not allowed to ask others to join. There is no recruiting for this Fraternity. They stipulate they have reasons for this and that is because being a Mason is a new way of life that should not be pushed upon another. It must be a voluntary act. They feel that recruiting would be pressuring. If one wants to attempt at joining he must ask for an application. It gets filled out then given to a Mason who will present it to his Lodge.

Then the Master of the Lodge arranges for a group of members to visit the applicant and his family to learn about his background and his reasons for wanting to become a Mason. This information is then taken back to the lodge where a vote takes place on whether to accept the applicant. It he has received a positive vote then he will be notified as to a date for the entered apprentice degree. He now will have two other degrees to complete after this one, which will take him to the position of Master mason.

If you were to ask a Mason to define himself, he would tell you that his priority is to feel good about himself. He cares about all facets of time being past, present, and future. His goal is to make the world a better place to live in. This seems to be a never-ending journey so when does the Mason get to come to feel he truly is a Mason. It would seem that when he reaches the point that he can enjoy all that the world contains and accepts that he is only a small part of the scheme of the world and as accepted all that the Masons stand for then he can truly call himself a Mason.

It would seem that the Masons whole belief is becoming the perfect man. It is an ongoing challenge that they strive towards everyday. One wonders if they believe that it?s possible for man to reach that point, and if so, has there ever been such a being in their organization that has accomplished this. Would they place their Grand Master as such a person?

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How To Improve Writing

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By Rudra Vina

It's frequently a misconception that you have to be born with writing talents. This is really false. Writing skills can be developed even one is generally a deplorable writer. The golden convention rule is that is the more you rehearse the more you will acquire better writing skills.

There should be no doubt that there are naturally gifted writers. There are some really talented writers of children and classic books. This can be attributed to the fact that they were surrounded by books from their early childhood. Their parents paid particular attention to their reading habits. Therefore as a child they were often surrounded by story books and were often read to as a child. This meant they learnt to read and write faster and were constantly reading that lead to their manifestation of their talent in later years. This suggests that writing skills are not what people are born with but acquired.

Nonetheless, it is perfectly possible with less writing skills to acquire it later in life. Some tips to improve writing skills are as follows.

First select a topic you're enthusiastic about and then write everything you have experienced about it. Read it and check what you have written. This will establish you roughly some kind of estimate how adept or bad you are. Give your bit of writing to somebody to study and assess and ask them to mark them for you. This should then give you a different view by an additional set of eyes. If you and your judge add up to a conclusion that it is dreadful, then it is time to join a local writing courses to amend your writing.

If you do not prefer to join any course then spend approximately 15 minutes studying the dictionary. Pick up a page, whatever page you like and then look up the meaning of those words and phrases. There are frequently words with replaceable meanings, you ought to learn about it. Once your have appreciated a particular word, write about the phrase. Pick out a different random word, learn it and then write about it.

In addition, all of the time read about diverse subjects for next six weeks. Take up any respectable book from the library and follow through it. Do not read it as if it is a novel however read slow and pay exceptional care to the structure of the sentences. Then sum up the book in your own writing. Over time you will undergo a lot of improvement.

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Quit Smoking Items

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By Mike James

You see it everywhere, don't you: "Smoking causes cancer". Isn't this health warning printed on every packet of cigarettes these days? However there are millions of people who, despite knowing it, still smoke. Everybody knows that smoking isn't healthy. It causes cancer or severe cardiac diseases to anyone who smokes regularly.

Despite the fact that a countless amount of people are still addicted to smoking, there are millions who want or even need to stop smoking. This can be very difficult, especially because of the cravings they experience and nicotine withdrawal symptoms. Quit smoking aids are useful during these situations in order to reduce craving and the effects of addiction withdrawal.

However, one of the benefits of living in a technologically-advanced world is that a wide variety of aids to help quit smoking are available on the market very easily. Some of the most commonly used items to stop smoking are nicotine chewing gum, nicotine patches, lozenges, inhalers, anti-withdrawal medications, hypnosis and herbal remedies and nicotine nasal sprays.

Not everyone gets any benefit from nicotine patches or chewing gum, as it doesn't work the same way on everybody. The results vary from one person to another. Items to help smokers stop are meant to help a person give up their unhealthy habit of smoking and also to relieve the symptoms of nicotine withdrawal.

Some of the most well-known items to quitting smoking on the market are Zyban and Chantix. Zyban is not recommended for use by everybody although it is quite good at reducing the discomforts associated with nicotine withdrawal. Many people have made a big effort to quit smoking, but have been unsuccessful. For many of these individuals, Zyban has been the answer to stopping smoking once and for all. There have been certain side-effects linked to the drug that include having a dry mouth, dizziness, migraine headaches, insomnia.

Chantix is another item to help you stop smoking that many people use nowadays. Using this has helped lower the level of pleasure that smokers derive from smoking and also minimize the symptoms of nicotine withdrawal. People who take Chantix find it an easy, painless way of supporting their aim of quitting smoking. The pleasure of smoking is reduced and as a result, they become less likely to take another cigarette.

While it's true that the market has more than enough products to quitting smoking, one of the best items is your own will power and determination. It is better than any drug that can be used to stop smoking. If you have no motivation or desire to quit smoking, then the best product to quit smoking in the world won't help you. In this case, you would probably quit smoking for a brief period of time and then resume your old habit again when your will power lapses.

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Sunday, July 26, 2009

Important Points In Healing A Broken Heart

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By Anne Torres

Ever got your heart broken? I know I have and it felt like my whole world had come to an end. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat and I cried all the time. It took me years to get over my broken heart. But I made a many mistakes that kept the pain alive. If you don't want to suffer from the pain of a broken heart for years like I did, keep reading. I will reveal to you the tips I have learned for healing a broken heart.

Initially, you should allow yourself time to grieve. Let your emotions run the range. You will feel sad, anger, helpless and a ton of other emotions in a short period of time. Let yourself a few days to cry and work through your emotions. After you have had your run of emotions you need to let off your ex. That's right, get rid of the anger that you feel for your ex and forgive him or her. This may be the hardest thing you will ever do in your life. But if you don't let off your ex and allow these negative feelings to stay inside you, the only person you are hurting is yourself.

The next tip I have for you is to learn how to love yourself. Your relationship failed, so what? It doesn't mean that you are not worth loving. It doesn't mean that you are less of a person. It just means that it was not meant to be. Now take this time to take pleasure in life. Think about what makes you smile and do it. Engage in your favorite hobby. Work on your image, both inside and out. When you learn to love yourself it shows and people will take notice. You will exert a pull on others to you. Who knows, you may even attract your ex back to you.

The third tip to healing a broken heart is to be gratified for the people around you. Discontinue looking for the negative in the people around you and look for the positive. Be thankful for your friends and be even thankful for your ex. Breaking up should be referred to as a learning experience for you. Take the things you have learned with you into your subsequent relationship. This will help you grow emotionally and it will make future relationship stronger.

The last tip that I have for you is to provide to others. When you help others, you will have a feeling of peace like no other. Helping those less lucky than you can bring you a joy that can replace any sadness that may be left inside of you. When you give to others, you will be sanctified with more in return.

Going through a break up is not the end of everything. But it sure does feel like it. I wish I would have known these tips when I broke up with my first love. It would have saved me years of grieving and it would have facilitated me to overcome my self esteem issues. These tips are just the beginning of a journey to self healing. But don't just take my word for it. Check out the resources that others have used to get better their lives on the website listed below.

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Dating Advice For Women: How To Get A Guy To Notice You

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By Samantha Sanderson

The topic of this article is made for the single girls out there as I am going to tell you how to get a guy to notice you!

Do you feel as if you are the only one that is single out of your girlfriends?

Do you want to know where all the quality men are and how to attract them?

Do you often ask yourself what does it take to catch the one?

I understand where you are coming from as I used to be like that!

So if you know you deserve better, then keep reading because I made this post for you.

Here are some fantastic tips about how to get a guy to notice you without fail. I know what you're thinking "oh gee these tips are so basic" but you have to remember, it is the small things in life that counts so don't skip what I'm telling you and pay attention.

You have to present yourself in a way that makes you approachable - Did you know that there are many guys out there who are really scared to go up to a girl they don't know and start a conversation with them. You need to make the experience of approaching you very easy because most men experience something known as "approach anxiety" which means it is hard for them to come up and just talk to you. I cannot stress how important it is for you to appear nice and inviting and presenting your body language in this way is important. Men are very sensitive when it comes to rejection, so you have to create a vibe that makes it easy for him to come to you that is why you have to create a positive atmosphere and not give him the wrong impression. You want to be able to ensure that it is easy for the guy to come and talk to you.

Listen to what he has to say - I have heard from many guys that their biggest fear when they approach a girl is that the woman is not interested in what they have to say. So remember, make it easier for the one you are interested in and listen to what he has to say. You have to appreciate that the guy has made the first move, so despite the fact that the convesration may be boring and uninspiring, don't make him feel bad! Give him a chance to impress you and do not embarass him by shutting him down!

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New Habits Can Teach You How to Improve Reading Speed

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By Kim Allarie

If you want to discover how to improve your reading speed, start by examining your habits. Do you have bad reading habits? You may not even recognize that you do. When it concerns speed reading, however, there are a variety of reading styles that can slow down your rate and hinder your mind from comprehending the meaning. What are they? Here's a look at several bad habits to steer clear of so that you can read faster and comprehend more.

* Reading a word at a time. There are people who attempt to capture each and every word on the page. However not all words are intended to be looked at separately. Some of them are there merely to embellish the language, add continuity to the sentences and hold all the phrases and clauses together. A major component of how to improve reading speed is to skim your eyes over the page as opposed to absorbing each word and analyzing it.

* Reading things more than once. This is done by people who are concerned that they may have missed a word and back up to re-read the sentence. Learn to acquire self-confidence in your reading abilities. Work at eliminating this bad habit by intentionally stopping yourself from going back. Your reading speed will improve dramatically.

* Moving your eyes from left to right. This is quite widespread among many readers. Although it may make you believe that you are speed reading, you will become aware of your mistake after you have read several paragraphs. Allowing your eyeballs to move from left to right will hold up your rate. The ideal way to sustain speed is to focus your eyes on the center of the line and then move downwards. This is especially valuable if reading columns. You might be astounded at how quickly you can read with this technique.

* Sub-vocalization. Possibly you've noticed children articulate words out loud while they are learning to read. This is known as sub-vocalization. However you have to lose this practice or you'll never discover how to improve reading speed. It hinders the capability of your brain to promptly take in and process information that it is reading. Remember that your brain can grasp words more quickly than your lips can read. As a result, you should allow your brain to handle the job in order to read more quickly.

It could take some time to do away with these poor habits, in view of the fact that they are so profoundly entrenched in most people. And up till now, you likely didn't even recognize that they were bad habits. So make a deliberate effort to not make any of the preceding errors. This is among the most effective means by which to know how to improve reading speed. Through time, speed reading will become your new habit.

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Saturday, July 25, 2009

Get My Wife Back - Remembering What She Actually Needs

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By Nikki Frost

Most probably the single biggest piece of advice I took to get my wife back was to stop listening to what she wanted and start observing what she displayed what she really wanted.

How do they show what they crave? For how to get your wife back it is as simple as seeing what type of men they choose.

Women say "I like a man who pays attention to me." They pick the man who dominates the conversation. Women pronounce, "I crave a guy with a fine sense of humor." They see the guy that has riches.

Why do women declare they yearn for 1 thing but actually date a guy who is precisely the opposite? The reply to that question lies in the hidden motivators for getting together. And, within lies my marriage information to get my wife back.

The biological reason behind men and women getting together is to continue our existence. In other words, although having babies may be the last thing on her mind, she evaluates her mate subconsciously based on whether he will be a good father to her children.

In learning how to win your wife back, is a good father someone who listens to her? No. It is someone who can provide for her and her children. And that person is someone with wealth and security.

Your lady wants you to be a strong provider. This all comes down to the fact that she only has about 400 chances to have a baby. So if you can show her that you will be there for your kids and for her, then to "get my wife back" will be rather easy.

A man who has a good stable job, with enough money has a good chance of baring her children. But there's more to it...

Her man needs to share his wealth with her and the kids. So if you want to know "how to get my wife back", giving her jewelry will never hurt.

That is why splashing out on an expensive wedding ring is not only traditional and romantic, but it is to show her that to "get my wife back" you can provide for her and the children.

Furthermore, even in modern society where money is made from our brains, not our brawn, women are still programmed to see a man's strength as his ability to provide for her. So staying in shape is a good way how to get your wife back.

So what is the biggest piece of advice I took to get my wife back? I turned to nature and figured out what my wife needed from an evolutionary point of view and I gave it to her.

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How to Get an "A" on Your Next Essay Test

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By Andrew Carson

All high school and college students know that getting good marks on essay tests is one of their biggest tasks in any academic year. If you can learn how to consistently write good essays then you will have gained an academic tool that will be of immense value to you in the coming years. In case you need some tips on how to be a better essay writer, then I would like to share my experience with you.

1. Read the test questions carefully and plan your answers accordingly. Before you start writing on any particular question, look at the entire exam and find out the following: How many questions do you have to answer and is there a choice of questions? Find out, and then keep it in mind. This sounds elementary but it is important. On my first college test I got so carried away that I wrote for one hour on one question and forgot about the two other questions. I got a "D." So, don't make that mistake!

2. Plan what you are going to do and allocate time accordingly. Once you know how many questions there are, then allocate time for each question. Bring a watch with you because it may not be convenient to look at the wall clock which may not be in a convenient position, or may not even be there. One of the best ways to plan your answer is to make an outline of the points that you are going to cover. After you make your outline, then start writing and make sure that you cover all of your points while staying aware of how much time you are taking to do the essay.

3. Open with a well-written introduction. Your first paragraph is very important. A good technique is to start by restating the question and then give a brief idea of what you are going to say that will answer that question. An introductory paragraph will not only give the examiner a better idea of what is coming, but it will also guide you as well.

4. Show that you know something about the course. The paragraphs that follow the introduction and precede the conclusion are the places where you can show that you have read the books, listened to class discussion and have understood something about the course. Use these paragraphs to answer the question, and wherever possible back up your opinions with references to authors, articles, books and class discussion that supports your arguments. Emphasize what you know about the subject and don't try to hide your knowledge gaps with "hot air." Make every word count.

5. Write simply but intelligently. In order to do well on any essay test it is important to prepare and assimilate the course material, but it is also important to be able to communicate clearly and efficiently. It is not a good idea to use or misuse terms that you are not familiar with. Make it easy for your instructor to read your essay, and remember that she might have 40 other essays to read as well!

6. Conclude clearly and strongly. Your closing paragraph should restate what you set out to do in the opening paragraph and it should summarize what you have said in the body of your essay. Conclude your essay with clarity and with confidence.

If you follow these tips, and work on developing your writing skills you will not only do well on your essays in school, but will have acquired a valuable skill that will help you throughout your entire life.

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Does Christianity Share The Same Beliefs As Freemasonry?

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By Simon Gray

It?s quite well known that the much of the negativity that is shown towards the Freemasons is based on what is believed to be their secrecy. It would seem with all of the books and materials that have been published over the years there couldn't possibly be any secrets left unturned if there were some in the first place. Others state that because the secrecy is the priority of the Masons what goes on has never been really released. The Masons look at the fact of keeping their rituals a secret as a bond and not some sinister act. Pro Masons will tell you there are no blood oaths or ceremonies that take place amongst the Masons and certainly no physical violence.

Anti Masons who refer to violence by way of punishment within the Mason walls have been said to glean their information from historical data of the Masons. This is not to say that the Masons of the 1700?s were party to violent acts either. It is said that their references from those days in regards to punishment was purely symbolic.

So where does the speculation come in that a Christian because of his beliefs could never become a Mason? It is based on the fact that the Freemasons state they allow all religions to enter their group. It is known that not all religious groups believe in Christ in the same way that the Christians do. The Christians believe that if they do not accept Christ as their way to get into heaven then there is no other way. Other religions do not abide by this. So how could a Christian become part of this organization that says a member must believe in a ?Superior Being??

The argument goes further. If there are Christians amongst the Masons that have the Christian belief then they are amongst those who they call their brothers that are non-Christian.

In addition to all of this the Freemasons also lays out a plan of salvation, which is depicted, with their ritual of the Common Gavel. It is said by some that this ritual is directed towards those who do not believe in Christ.

Therefore, what is believed to be the actual stand that the Freemasons have on religion. It is indicated that the Lodges have one main deity called the ?The Great Architect of the Universe?. In the lodge, all members must pray to this deity. They supposedly have a ritual that is based on the afterlife called the ?slaying and raising of Hiram Abif, who is know to be the Hero of the Masons.

The argument based on actions such as this would raise a better question as to what do Freemasons constitute as a religion if they do not consider themselves as such. In answer to this, some will say they do not have all of the constitution of what constitutes religion. They are referring to no creed, no claim to faith or doctrine, no theory and no worship regimes. They have no religious symbols such as those found in other religions. They raise no money for religion.

It is well known and that the Freemasons date back to at least the 1700?s and most likely even further than that. In those days, it was simply a gathering of stonemasons that enjoyed each other?s fellowship. It grew over the years as to what we now know as the Freemasons. It would seem more emphasis is placed on the fellowship as opposed to the literal sense of the trade of masonry.

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Friday, July 24, 2009

What Are Hemorrhoids?

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By Richard Hill

Hemorrhoid or hemorrhoids, refers to a condition where there is a presence of masses of dilated blood vessel underneath the lining of the skin in the anal canal or rectum. Studies have documented that the inflamed mass is actually composed of spongy vascular tissue with several direct arteriovenous connections. Hippocrates coined the term hemorrhoids from the Greek words hema meaning blood and rhoos meaning flowing.

Men and women alike can have hemorrhoids; these are extremely common occurrences and in fact more than 50% of the population has them by the time they reach 50 years of age. Hemorrhoids have traditionally been thought of as varicose veins of the anus or rectum, or as "varicosities" of hemorrhoidal tissue.

Hemorrhoids have been around since the beginning of mankind, and although their origin isn't specifically known, they began, possibly, when we were first upright. During the Middle Ages, hemorrhoids were called St. Fiacre's curse; St. Fiacre is the gardeners' patron saint, and he contracted a horrible case of prolapsed hemorrhoids after he had spent the day laboring in his garden.

Hemorrhoids are usually classified as two different types, external and internal. If hemorrhoids are external, they are below the anal sphincter, and if they are internal, they are above the anal sphincter. Typically, hemorrhoids are chronic for people, although they may also be acute.

The first form, internal hemorrhoids, can be found within the right posterior, right anterior and left lateral positions inside the anal canal. The position of hemorrhoids within the anal canal however remains remarkably consistent. Internal hemorrhoids are generally not painful and most people are not conscious that they are inflicted since the area lacks pain receptors. When irritated however, may bleed. If not detected and treated at once, it may lead to severe forms such as strangulated and prolapsed hemorrhoid.

The second form, external hemorrhoids, occurs outside the anal verge. Occasionally, it is painful, and can be experienced with swelling and irritation. Although itching occurs, it is not a symptom of hemorrhoid but is usually due to skin irritation. If the dilated vein ruptures and/or develops a blood clot, it will be termed as thrombosed hemorrhoid (most often occurs on external hemorrhoids).

Hemorrhoids are classified by history rather than by physical examination. Grade I hemorrhoids bleed but are not prolapsed; Grade II hemorrhoids prolapse and undergo spontaneous reduction. Grade IIIs prolapse and undergo manual reduction, and Grade IVs prolapse irreducibly. These classifications have been around for many years and correspond quite well to treatment algorithms. Quite often, Grades I and II can be treated without surgery, while Grades III and IV will probably require surgery.

Often times, women may experience hemorrhoids during their first pregnancy, in the last trimester. The causes for this are not clearly known, but it may be as a result of venous return impediment by the gravid uterus, chronic straining, and/or hormonal changes. Again, the real cause isn't known, but usually, once women have given birth, these hemorrhoidal symptoms go away. In some cases, a form of surgery called a hemorrhoidectomy may be necessary, and can be performed safely, with little risk of death to the mother and with little danger to the fetus.

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Breathing the Stress Out!

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By Kimberlee Cusumano

Basic ways to ease the pain.In a modern world where the demands of life are constant work and tedious responsibility we almost experience constant stress . This is made worse by not having enough time or not knowing on how to reduce our stress, but the world offers so much. There are basic ways on how to get rid of stress, one of them is learning and applying in our life the reiki technique.

Reiki is a Japanese healing technique to relieve the body from stress and create a better flow of energy. Its purpose is to create less tension in the body and even promote healing. This technique aims to treat the whole body of the person; this includes one's emotion, mind and spirit. A creation of wholeness carries along many benefits because there is a feeling of peace inside and less body aches outside. Reiki has a way of thinking that if an individual's "life force energy" is high, then we are more capable of being normal and healthy and also develop a feeling of happiness rather than having a low "life force energy" that explains our stress and body pain.

A person is often even more stressed on how to do this but it is really just a basic practice of treating our body well. For example, the act of meditation. One form of meditation is expressed in Zazen and Vipassana where it centers on formal sitting, the aim is to practice proper breathing while keeping the body immobile and the attention of the person controlled. It is an easy way to keep peace inside yourself while working outwards on how the tension on your body is removed. Meditation also concentrates on how the person thinks; it could be an expressive practice where the body is free to do anything while the mind aims to have positive perspective with the things happening around.

A popular form of getting rid of stress is also through massage. This can be expanded with healing starting from the physical state of a person and getting through all the way to the mind and the soul. The goal of a massage is to slowly eliminate tension in muscles after the body has felt better; the mind will also start feeling better. It has been said that pain is only in the mind and if ache is taken off from the body then the mind would also stop thinking of pain.

Since massage involves putting pressure in certain areas of the body, it also needs careful and cautious movements since too much pressure may cause even more pain, which is why people should consult a massage therapist. A massage therapist is someone who is well educated on what joints and pressure points need a certain level of pressure and how to apply it. This would ensure a greater chance of healing and prevent even worse cases of tension.

There are countless ways on how to feel, look and think healthy, either by focusing on your muscle pains and start there which may lead to more relaxed mind, or starting on an optimistic view progressing to a better body and better comfort.

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Hypnotherapy Training - How It Can Be Used In Your Job

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By Barry Miller

Hypnotherapy training has several benefits in professions of all kinds. Hypnotherapy, some say, does not require training and it is the innate skill of people that make them experts, but in fact, training does help success seeking professionals a lot. It helps them become acquainted with the basics of their domain and improves their motivation and focus.

Hypnotherapy training helps us comprehend how the human nature works and the subtleties of interaction involved in one-to-one relations. Progress in any career relies almost entirely upon the appropriate acquisition of these skills. Participants can interact about the subject matter with experts in a training session where they acquire a comprehensive knowledge of how the brain functions.

Hypnotherapy training can give that extra mileage to your career and the knowledge you gain increases your confidence and self respect. Hypnosis helps people combat grave psychological troubles like anxiety related ailments. It makes a person fit for facing a highly competitive business environment and also helps him discover his hidden potential.

Hypnotherapy training has successfully catered to the professional needs of people working in stressful jobs like the police and the military forces, and it has also helped self-made businessmen. Sales executives can also find this training to be very useful. Salespeople can learn the art of convincing and apply soft hypnosis to convince customers and make sure that they can't refuse the products or items offered to them.

No matter which field you belong to, you will find numerous examples of people who have achieved success in that field through hypnosis. Hypnotherapy training sessions are quite inexpensive and do not require much time, and if you are an ambitious professional, then this expertise is a must for you.

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Thursday, July 23, 2009

Letting Go With A Full Body Massage

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By Satya Supriyareed

Everyone needs to relax, to escape the tyranny of time. Listening to music, watching the movements of the clouds, combing the beach for pebbles or shells are ways to still the mind, to regain a sense of our wholeness in the innocence of the moment. As children, we climb trees and run around barefoot, in touch with our basic nature. As we grow older, we spend more and more time living purely in our heads.

Massage can provide us with a means to counteract the relentless surge of work and domestic pressures. For all too many of us, stiffness and pain are a way of life to which we have become habitualized and it is often not until we give or receive massage that we realize our muscles are tight, or come to see how much of our energy is consumed by tension. Massage can be a voyage of self-discovery, revealing how it feels to be more relaxed and in tune with ourselves, to experience the pleasure of a body that can breathe, stand and move freely.

Massage has its greatest impact on the muscular tissues of the body. Therapeutic manipulation of the muscles aids in the circulation of blood and lymphatic fluids, activates the organs of digestion and detoxification, and enhances the ability of the lungs and skin. As the muscles improve through enhanced oxygenation and elimination, so do the neural connections supplying the muscles, which feed right back to the spinal cord and brain.

Through gentle persistent focus on the whole person, massage therapy provides a refreshing perspective on chronic, unresolved issues. Most clients find massage raises their energy levels, increases body awareness, and leads to an enhanced feeling of well being. To achieve the greatest benefit from your massage therapy session, focus your mind and body on letting go of muscular tension. Encourage your muscles to go limp, and let your body melt into the table. Close your eyes and focus on your breathe. Notice the parts of your body that move while inhaling and exhaling. Focus on the exhale, fully releasing all of your breathe before inhaling again. Allow yourself this session to be fully present within your self. As your mind wanders, gently bring it back to your breathe.

Feeling the therapeutic touch of the therapist's hands, be open and channel your breath into the tissues being worked on. Allow the therapist to move your limbs unassisted. Your only participation need be your focused breath. Let the therapist know if they need to adjust the pressure to suit your comfort. It is helpful to let them know if something feels particularly good and necessary. This will help to connect your needs to your therapist intent, to achieve a harmonious exchange. Your therapist enjoys conversing, but also understands the value that quietness brings to the therapeutic exchange.

Getting a Massage can have such a positive impact. Getting massage frequently can create lasting positive change. Investing time and money in regularly scheduled massage as part of your self care can play a huge part in how healthy you'll be, and how healthy you'll stay, in the years ahead. Consider your massage therapy appointments a necessary part of your health and wellness plan. You and your therapist can establish treatment goals and a schedule that best suits your needs.

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Benefits From Losing Weight

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By Bernard Adkins

People choose to lose weight for many reasons. Some may have health problems, while others just want to look better. Many different ways are used to help one lose weight including the use of diet pills at times. But when you want to lose weight quickly how would be the best way to go about it?

Different ways you need to look at will be a gym, boot camp, or even just a workout program you can do at home. Diet pills can be considered as an option, but in the long run you will still need to add in exercise too. So you have those options that were first mentioned to help you lose weight quickly.

Don't forget you also have an option of using a personal trainer to help out in your weight loss. With a great personal trainer you will be motivated harder and you will notice results when you want to lose weight fast.

Comparing your many options should have you checking either the internet or yellow pages and calling around. Try and look at around two from each of the different categories above. Of course if you have one of the choices that are just too far away you will need to eliminate it. But in this case we will just pretend that all of them are available to you in your area.

Gyms may offer a special when you join them which will have you able to use a personal trainer along with your fee. If this is the case, you should seriously consider this as a top option in your weight loss program. But be careful because these may only be a few sessions that are offered, and after you will need to pay separately for the trainer. Meaning your fast weight loss program has now two costs of a personal trainer and a gym membership.

Diet pills will work ok, but really they aren't a great option, because you will also need to include that program of exercise. Though many people have lost weight with the use of diet pills, you should only use these under the supervision of a physician. Never try this option without first consulting a doctor.

When you look at how to lose weight quickly one of the best options would be a boot camp. With an intensive workout and a personal trainer pushing you, this option will see results quickly. In these four to six week programs you will have a thorough workout and your body will love you for it. Building lean muscle mass in your body, and giving you more energy than you've had in a while are only two of the benefits of this weight loss program. Though the cost in many cases is going to be a lot more than a gym membership.

In closing, when you want to lose weight you should look at many different ways. Don't limit yourself to only one choice. Compare the cost and whether you will actually be able to afford it. Pick a program that will not only help you lose weight, but one that you will be committed to doing. A workout program will only work to help you if you put your all into it.

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Invisalign Braces - Is The Extra Cost Worth It?

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By Gary Erickson

The trendy new way to straighten teeth an invisible treatment system called Invisalign. This retainer can eliminate the metallic smile that traditional braces cause. The Invisalign system uses a series of plastic molds as "aligners" to gently move teeth to their correct alignment.

The dentist or orthodontist will use a computer imaging system to design your invisalign braces. After taking bite impressions, the dentist will use the computer imaging system to create a series of clear plastic retainers. The first set will fit your teeth immediately and the successive ones will use gentle pressure to move your teeth to the correct spot.

Straightening teeth with invisalign can take anywhere from 18 to 30 different sets of retainers and each is worn for two weeks, except during meals. This invisible treatment method takes the same amount of time as braces.

The biggest benefit of invisible invisalign braces is that most people do not want to spend two years with wires in their mouth. Some adults would prefer to have crooked teeth than have the wire braces for two years. The invisalign invisible system is much more aesthetically pleasing for many customers than wire braces

Hygiene is another reason why invisalign may be superior to wire braces. The invisalign retainer can be removed for meals and for teeth cleaning. This can reduce the bad breath that some wire retainer patients experience. It is also easier for people to keep their teeth clean and to eat without the wire in their teeth during meals

One drawback to the invisalign system is that since the plastic retainer is removable, some people do not wear it as they should. This can lengthen the time it takes to achieve the desired straightening of the teeth. Most, however, find the invisible invisalign braces to be superior to wire braces.

The cost of invisalign is 20 to 50 percent higher than traditional wire braces and some insurance plans may balk at the added expense. You may want to check your insurance plan to see if there are limitations on the methods of tooth straightening. If you are thinking about trying the invisalign method, you should consult with an orthodontist or dentist to learn more and to see if it is right for you or your family.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Learn How to Pick Good Landscaping Computer Software

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By Frank Froggatt

If you're looking to design the landscape of your dreams, and you want to use landscaping software to help you achieve this, then there are some really great landscaping programs out there but others are a complete and total waste of money.You just simply need to figure out which landscaping software program works well for what you want it for before you buy it.

There are quite a few different landscaping programs on the market for your average show that are really terrible. Some of them are just plain awful and to buy them is to throw your money down the drain. The graphics on them will be absolutely horrific, and looked like cartoons that won't give you any type of benefit at all.There are some really awesome landscaping software design programs out there built for the commercial market that are amazing with their graphics and their abilities.

One thing you need to understand about landscaping design software programs is that they don't do the designing for you, it is just simply a program that helps bring your ideas to life, from what is actually put into it.

So if you think that this software program is going to do all the work of designing and you aren't going to have to put in any input, think again and don't waste your money.

If you have some really great ideas stirring about, and you want to get an idea of what they might look like in completion, then one of these software programs could really benefit you.

Don't commit to working out any cash for a landscaping software program before you get a demonstration of it working. This is going to give you a really good idea if the program is going to help you achieve the results that you want. You should try to choose a landscaping software program that has good graphics.

The reason for this is that the better graphics will help you to actually see what you're trying to achieve. The goal of every type of landscaping program is this. In actuality if it's just a crap piece of software, you would be better off just simply utilizing the built-in drawing programs that are already installed on your computer.

By getting a demonstration of the software it will allow you to compare the different capabilities effectively by price. If you have the choice between two separate types of software, and they both do the exact same thing but one is twice the price, then which one are you going to buy? You're going to buy the cheaper one of course. So check out the prices.

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Get Ex Girlfriend Back From Abusive Situation

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By Nathan Birnbaum

How are you get ex squeeze back from a violent situation? How ever it needs to happen, you need to make sure that she is getting out of it. It can be heartbreaking to grasp that your ex girlfriend, the one that you adore, isn't just with the wrong person, but in an abusive situation. that no person merits. Whether you are able to get ex girlfriend back or merely get her out of it, you need to make a decision. Is it more crucial to get ex girlfriend back or to save her from this horrible nightmare that she may be in. What is going to make the most difference is if she sees it as you watching out for her best interest rather than yours. You will also need to look closely at your motivation so that you don't simply use this as an attempt to further your own interest. No matter what you decide, though , if you see the good that needs to be done, do it. You also have to understand that she may not want to be saved and have to accept there's nothing that you can do.

Being the hero can go a long way in her eyes if you save her from not just an unhappy situation, but a potentially fatal one. It is well known that once someone has been abused that it is straightforward for them to fall back to it. If she knows that you are a safe one that she will be able to turn to then she will find it harder to turn away. You have to first let her know that you are a secure place.

Hopefully she'll have known that you are able to take care of her. If you did not do that good of a job, make sure she knows that you have changed ( you better have seriously modified, though ). Make her that she can depend on you and that you will listen. That may part but it will go a long way. It is a good thing to learn how to do any way. Also ensure that she knows she deserves better. An abuser will flourish on making the abused feel little and they deserve what they deserve what they are getting. Her self esteem may be severely hurt. Make her know that she is special. Get ex squeeze back from that bad place as she truly deserves better.

Your true motivation for saving her from the aggressive situation will help make it easy to get ex girlfriend back. If you are trying to make it apparent that your principal concern is to get ex squeeze back then you will do something that compromises her safety. If the abuser gets a concept that somebody is trying to take her away and that she might be contemplating it then the situation might get worse. Abusers are typically awfully envious and have a great need to control. When they feel that their control might be lessening up they will try to correct it using whatever means they feel is required. What ever you do trying to get ex fiance back, you want to think about their safety first.

If you see that your ex ex squeeze is in trouble, do something about it. It is too simple to turn away from someone in need. It can get messy in your own life but there is much good that may come from it. If you succeed, not only will you get ex squeeze back, but you could have saved a life. .

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Top Hangers Can Properly Organize Your Closet

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By Sky Borg

Is it time to get that closet organized? Having the right hangers can help. When you start arranging the clothes in your closet you can start with some durable top hangers to keep everything neatly in place and off the ground where they will last much longer and stay much nicer. So the first step in organizing your closet is to make certain you have enough hangers for all your clothes.

The next step is to remove everything from your closet. Everyone has boxes and piles of shoes and many other items that can get in the way of your reorganization. The added benefit of this step is that you are sure to find something that you don't want or need anymore. If it is still in good condition, you can give it to a charitable organization. If it's not, now is the chance to throw it out.

Once you've got everything cleared out you should separate your clothes by item type. Put all skirts, dresses, and pants into one piles, and shirts and other clothing in another. Pullover sweaters should not be put on hangers or top hangers because they will start to stretch out of shape. Fold them up and put them on a shelf or in a drawer instead.

Now look at the closet and find a place for all of your piles and boxes. One thing to consider is if you have multiple levels in the closet, save your highest rod for hanging the dresses and pants. Shorter rods are a good place for your shirts and skirts. And of course, top quality hangers can be used on any level.

Some people say you should always press as you go, and this is pretty good advice. When you take the time to iron your clothes before putting them on top hangers, it will take longer to finish the chore, but you will be pleased with the result. When you iron everything you put into your closet, you'll always have something in wearable condition when you need it.

If you like being a little more organized than the lady down the street, you can consider organizing your types of clothing by color. You'll find the benefit of this later on when you decide on what to wear. It obvious that you decided to wear what you are wearing based on coordinating colors. Taking this extra step can help save time.

Hang pants and skirts on clip or top quality press hangers only. Folding them over a regular hanger guarantees you'll end up with a horizontal crease where you don't want one. If you have pants made of lightweight fabric, feel free to put two on one hanger.

And finally, find an appropriate area to arrange your shoes and accessories. Scarves and ties hang nicely from clips designed for regular hangers. A hanging shoetree is an ideal space saving tool that utilizes the back of your closet door. Don't be afraid to be creative and work with what you have.

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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

How Much Information Should Go Into My CV?

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By Glenn Hughes

When a recruiter looks at and reads your CV, it's a bit like them walking into a shop. They expect to see certain things in the shop like a till, things to buy, people to help them, etc. If the shop had no shelves or things to buy then you would soon find that people walked out straight away. Your CV works in exactly the same way- if certain information isn't in your CV, the recruiters will walk away straight away and your CV goes straight into the rejected pile

Your name needs to be shown prominently at the top of the page. First and second names are absolutely fine and shortened versions of your first name are becoming increasingly acceptable. If you prefer to be called Kath and not Kathleen, please make sure the recruiter knows your name. Be careful with nicknames- a shortened version of your name is fine, gummy bear is not.

Basic contact information need to have a prominent place at the top of the CV. Your name, full postal address including postcode, your land telephone line and mobile number as well must all be included. Please make sure that they all are easily readable at the top of your CV

Your personal profile or career statement. Make sure that following the basic information you include a personal statement. It doesn't need a heading, just go straight into it. Include what you can do (job title), for who (industry sector), where (geography), and also point to your track record. The employer basically needs to know in a nutshell whether you fit with the sort of role that they are looking to fill.

Career history. This needs to highlight your achievements in each of the jobs you've done over, say the last 8 years. Work experience further back in the past should be included in an "other" work section towards the end of the document. Work from your most recent achievements in reverse chronological order (work back)

Academic qualifications are different from professional qualifications. academic qualifications are gained at educational institutions like schools, universities, etc. Start with the highest level of qualification (which is usually the most recent as well), work through your qualifications and list them appropriately

Professional qualifications/ training courses. These are very different from academic qualifications nd should be listed as such. The same protocols as academic qualifications apply but the level of qualification is a little more subjective. Write them down in the same order: Qualification, Training provider, date

Hobbies, interests, driving license, age, etc. This should be one of the very last things to be written on your CV. Make sure that this information is factual, and do not put your actual date of birth into the CV as you never know where the CV will end up- identity theft is a very real issue and you should protect information like your date of birth. You don't actually need to put your age on at all if you don't want to- leave it out

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Learn How You Can Think up Fantastic Landscaping Ideas

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By Frank Froggatt

Landscaping ideas are not always easy to come up with on your own. The truth is, that most people need some type of help with their landscaping, which makes it a really good thing that it's not that hard to find quality landscaping ideas.

You can find many also landscaping ideas and different places, but one of the absolute best places to find really good landscaping ideas is the Internet. When you look on the Internet you'll find hundreds of sites that have some really great ideas for landscaping your yard which you can use as your own.In most instances it is necessary to put lots of thought and consideration into how you want your yard to look, so finding just the right landscaping idea is critical to the success of your project.

You should start by taking a walk around your property in order to get a good sense of what can be done. See how the drainage is and check out the slopes and levels of your property. By doing this, you will find that it will be a lot easier to know which landscaping idea is going to work best for your yard. The more you notice the easier things will be. It wouldn't be a good thing if you chose a landscaping idea and started work on only to find out later on that you can't completed because of some feature that your yard has. This is why you need to find out all that you can about each landscaping idea that you are contemplating using.

Don't make any final decisions on your landscaping idea and tell you learn a few landscaping basics.This is absolutely essential if you have never tried landscaping before. If you're new to the whole world of landscaping then you might want to take out a book or two from the library. This way you do not have to pay for them and you will still get all that they have to offer. There is a lot of be gained from reading some good landscaping books, you might even find a landscaping idea in them.

If you know that you want to change the landscaping in your front yard and your back yard then you need to use a landscaping idea that will incorporate both of these. It is optimal to get both of your front and back yards to flow into one another. This is going to give you the best overall look and feel so try to find landscaping idea that is going to harmonize in this way.

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