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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

5 Tips For Personal Transformation

Posted by patrick

By Jason Schultz

She looked at me and a smile crept across her face. "There's something different about you," she said with a smile. All I could think at that moment was, people really do notice you when you get a great haircut.

The moment people notice your new hair cut, is the moment you start to look at yourself in a new light. The idea is to change your personal style one article at a time and use that momentum to carry your life in a new "better" direction.

A hair cut is just the beginning. The inner confidence that develops over time, can be taught to anyone who is interested.

Persistence and dedication are the only tools you are going to need to achieve results. Listed below are 5 guidelines that will help you attain your goals and overcome obstacles.

TIP #1: Embrace the Pain

Leave you ego at the door. When you take on a new path in life, remember it is the "journey," not the "destination," that is important. When you embark on this new voyage remember that it is okay to fall. Embrace failure, push past the pain, and keep trying.

Quoting Arnold Schwarzenegger, "The last three or four reps is what makes the muscles grow. This area of pain divides a champion from someone who is not a champion. That's what most people lack, having the guts to go on and just say they'll go through the pain no matter what happens."

Vow to push past the pain, and you will be one step closer to achieving greatness.

GUIDELINE #2: Take Off the Lid

Stop questioning what you "can" and "cant" do. Just do. The majority of fears, anxieties, and limitations are started by self-imposed beliefs. Break the habit of limiting yourself. Start small and then aim big. You will be surprised at what you can accomplish, by talking yourself into believing you have no limitations.

Start monitoring your limiting beliefs today and begin to see what you are really capable of.

TIP #3: Understand that Obstacles are Part of the Journey

Its cliche saying but its true: "Failure is inevitable." We only learn from what we do not know. Embrace the challenge ahead of you willing to fail.

They are made to keep all of those who don't want it badly enough OUT. You however are the exception. You will find a way to continue forward and make it past that wall.

ACTION #4: Be a Beginner and Be an Expert

Be humble with the knowledge you are gaining. Develop that mindset that any information you receive is priceless. You are by no means too superior to learn something new.

When working at developing any skill, bear in mind you are never above the fundamentals, yet keep your ears perked for expert level tips as well. Keep an open mind and be ready to learn at every opportunity.


No matter where you are from, we all dream of something better. With hard work, persistence, and time, anyone can achieve their dreams.

Take a moment and ask yourself "What did I want to be when I grew up?" Did you answer an astronaut or professional sports player? You need to reactivate the dreamer part of your personality.

Perception is reality. Change your perception and you will achieve you dreams. You will. Start now.

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