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Saturday, July 18, 2009

How To Be More Attractive To Men: Fast, Simple and Effective

Posted by patrick

By Sally Webb

Firstly, if you really want to know how to be more attractive to men, you've just got to stop idolizing those photoshopped supermodel shots stuck on magazine covers, because they are air-brushed or at least, wearing best cosmetic by the best beautician. You can't compete with that and most importantly, men are not that superficial in the first place.

Not to mention having supermodels as beauty standard is just unrealistic, and before you know it YOU will become visual and sad - like those barbie dolls. You do not need to waste so much money on plastic surgery, permanent make up, professional nose job etc just to be more attractive to men. (OK, that was maybe a little bit of exaggeration, but you want to date only a handful of men YOU find attractive, not everyone.) So in three simple steps, here are how to be more attractive to men instantly:

1. Never fake a laugh, or a fake grin.

A nice smile is not an ear-to-ear abnormal looking grin, it is a warm heart-melting smile that lots of men find so attractive in a woman. A nice smile is easy to do, it is a real smile. You don't have to find a reason to smile, but there is nothing more annoying than a fake smile. Have you ever talked to someone and they give you a fake smile? It is fake isn't it? And also, have you ever talked to a man and they laugh too much or to all your not-so-funny jokes? Again, you don't want to come across like that.

2. Be confident of who you are.

You are only as attractive as you think. Who would think of you as beautiful if you don't even think so? And if you say "I'm not attractive", well how so? remember what I said about not comparing yourself based on the media standard earlier? Plus, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and YOU are the first beholder there is. Trust me, once you believe that you're attractive, you will find yourself to be more confident and that's exactly how to be more attractive to men.

3. Wear things that will draw the focus to your 'assets'.

Men are visual creatures, and men do not give a crap about the 'latest fashion trends' in Cleo. Many women dress to impress other women, not men. So if you'd like to impress your sex-in-the-city little lady group, put on the newest fashion trend, not to forget the designer expensive bag and the 'new winter look' fashion. But keep in mind that if you want to know how to be more attractive to MEN - not to your girlfriends - you need to learn how to dress to flatter your assets, whether or not it's the latest trends.

On top of that, it's probably better if you wouldn't feel the need to throw it to charity when the fashion season finally passes, because something that makes you look good will probably always make you look good in the next few seasons to come. So make sure to flaunt your assets, without being improper of course, keep your classiness intact ladies. The next time you buy clothes out there, don't be a trend victim and stick to the ones that suit you best.

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