Help Save My Marriage
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Are the warning signs there and you just want to ignore them? Or are you ready to take action and say, help save my marriage! Good marriages can take a bad turn for many reasons, including lack of communication, lack of a physical connection, putting other people first, not compromising and/or not spending enough time together. Sometimes couples feel like the honeymoon should last forever, when in fact, marriage is hard work and if one or both people stop working at it, the relationship becomes unimportant and may become unsalvageable.
If you are dealing with feeling lonely and lost all the time, fighting around your children and just not simply understanding each others need or desires, then it would be well worth your time and effort to address these issues so you can get on the right track for living a better and happier life.
Don't wait, start taking action today. In most cases we tend to always see fault or blame the other person for all are problems.You may say, Easier said than done, or it's too late. If you feel you can't do it alone, turn to a trusted resource and say, help save my marriage! A marriage worth having is a marriage worth saving! She's always doing this and she never does that kind of stuff has to STOP NOW! However, if you and your spouse are still together, it's not too late! The day that we stop blaming others and start looking within ourselves will be the day that you will see things start making a turn for the better, whether it is in your marriage or just in life in general.
In my personal search to help save my marriage, I learned that it's not always the fault of the other party. I realized I had a big part in the breakdown of communication which contributed to my marriage taking a wrong turn. Instead of planning things just myself I started thinking of activities we could do together.
I started making a point of asking my spouse to accompany me on errands and I also planned dinners just for the two of us. I knew that if we had an opportunity to have one-on-one time we'd stand a much better chance of saving everything we had built together through the years.
I also make a commitment to start seeing my spouse in a more positive light. I had developed a very bad habit of criticizing much more often than I was praising. I knew that if I wanted to help save my marriage I had to adopt a better outlook and I had to seek out the best parts of my spouse as opposed to dwelling on what was undesirable. It goes without saying that saving a marriage takes effort, but it's certainly well worth it.
A simple rule to follow is to stop using they instead of I. Once we realize this the they and the I start becoming WE again.
If you are dealing with feeling lonely and lost all the time, fighting around your children and just not simply understanding each others need or desires, then it would be well worth your time and effort to address these issues so you can get on the right track for living a better and happier life.
Don't wait, start taking action today. In most cases we tend to always see fault or blame the other person for all are problems.You may say, Easier said than done, or it's too late. If you feel you can't do it alone, turn to a trusted resource and say, help save my marriage! A marriage worth having is a marriage worth saving! She's always doing this and she never does that kind of stuff has to STOP NOW! However, if you and your spouse are still together, it's not too late! The day that we stop blaming others and start looking within ourselves will be the day that you will see things start making a turn for the better, whether it is in your marriage or just in life in general.
In my personal search to help save my marriage, I learned that it's not always the fault of the other party. I realized I had a big part in the breakdown of communication which contributed to my marriage taking a wrong turn. Instead of planning things just myself I started thinking of activities we could do together.
I started making a point of asking my spouse to accompany me on errands and I also planned dinners just for the two of us. I knew that if we had an opportunity to have one-on-one time we'd stand a much better chance of saving everything we had built together through the years.
I also make a commitment to start seeing my spouse in a more positive light. I had developed a very bad habit of criticizing much more often than I was praising. I knew that if I wanted to help save my marriage I had to adopt a better outlook and I had to seek out the best parts of my spouse as opposed to dwelling on what was undesirable. It goes without saying that saving a marriage takes effort, but it's certainly well worth it.
A simple rule to follow is to stop using they instead of I. Once we realize this the they and the I start becoming WE again.
About the Author:
I am writing this article from my own experience, and really hope this will help with your marriage as it has my own. Marriage is a sacred thing and we should hold onto it. Here is more information on how to Help Save My Marriage.
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