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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Heartbroken Poem To help You Recover From Break Up

Posted by patrick

By Otto Cannon

If you have ever been thru a unhappy break up with someone you've love, you will have written a heartbroken poem. You may have even written such a poem for stuff like the loss of a pet or a family member, unhappiness at moving away from your friends, or any quantity of unhappy life events. But it seems nothing affects such sad poetry as a break-up or divorce. Just as few things inspire love poetry quite like being in a chuffed, loving relationship.

Poetry is a brilliant medium for self-expression. Unless you are creating poetry with the expectation of having it revealed one day, you can write poetry however you like. It does not need to be good poetry. You do not need to appreciate any of the poetic terms or conventions like rhyme, meter or free verse. You do not even have to have ever read a fairly good poem in your life to draft a heartbroken poem that can help you feel better and maybe help you heal from the discomfort of a split.

An critical early step in getting over a break up or any unhappy situation is simply facing the pain. While it might feel better to avoid working with the actuality of the situation, you cannot truly move past it without facing it and feeling the discomfort, at least for a while. So facing up to whatever painful situation is occurring is necessary. A sad poem will help you deal with those agonizing feelings when you've split with someone you love.

Don't worry about whether it's good or not. No-one else ever has to read your sad poem. It's for you and you alone. Just write down your feelings, as hard as that may be. You can write in plain language. Don't try and imitate the poets of the 17th and 18th century. Write like you talk, and break the lines where it feels natural to you. Essentially, you can start by writing one huge paragraph stuffed with all your feelings and everything you would like to express, simply to get it out. Then you can go back and prepare your thoughts and feelings into a poem.

Once you have written a heartbroken poem, you may want to scribble more about different parts of the agony. That is good. Get down everything you can, and that will help you to face the pain. Writing the poetry will probably be a very emotional time for you. Don't try to stop it. Just let the pain out and you'll be better ready to go on.

If you decide you would like to share your heartbroken poem, you can show family or mates. Or if you want to share it but not with anybody you know, you can put it on the internet. There are web sites designed just for such things. You can upload your poetry free and let other folks know if you'd like to receive criticism or not. You may choose to not receive comments on your sad poem and just enjoy the fact that you've shared your experience.

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