Get Your Ex Back Using Play
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It is fairly normal to want your ex back after a break up. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and we often realize how good we had it. And the pain of the break up teaches us lessons on how to act differently when we get them back. The break up can be a good thing.
So now you may find yourself wanting to improve the relationship, if only you can get them back. How do you go about getting them back?
There are a number of methods you can use to help you get your ex back into your life and your heart. Happily, millions before you have made mistakes and gotten their ex back. And some solid strategies have been developed and tested on how to make this happen.
How you get your ex back is determined by what caused the relationship to end. If you cheated on your ex, you need a different approach than if your ex just isnt that into you anymore and dumped you because they were bored. Each situation requires different relationship repair.
Here is one strategy that will work in many cases, particularly after a few weeks or more has passed since the break up. If things have calmed down and your ex no longer flies into a rage when you talk to them, this approach can work wonders. The approach is PLAY. Playing with your ex is a great way to begin to get them back into your life. By that I mean you call them to do fun things together that you think they might like. If they like to ski, you can call and say Hey, I know were broken up and all, but I want to go skiing this Saturday and need a buddy, will you fill in, no strings attached, just a ski day?
The key is to tell them right from the beginning that you know they've broken up with you. That way, they are less likely to be suspicious about your motivations. If they get that you understand and aren't trying to manipulate them or pressure them, they are much more likely to say yes. Then you go have fun and play together for a bit. The more you have some playtime with your ex, the more happily they will think of you. After a few dates, you may find yourself naturally getting back together.
Play can be a powerful tool for getting back with your ex. Whether its going to a museum or a ball game or to a dance club, you can probably think of some ways your ex might like to play with you some. Play is one of the best ways to bond or re-bond with your ex. There are other steps you may need to do first to get to a place where your mate will accept your invitation, but play can be a big help in getting back with your ex.
So now you may find yourself wanting to improve the relationship, if only you can get them back. How do you go about getting them back?
There are a number of methods you can use to help you get your ex back into your life and your heart. Happily, millions before you have made mistakes and gotten their ex back. And some solid strategies have been developed and tested on how to make this happen.
How you get your ex back is determined by what caused the relationship to end. If you cheated on your ex, you need a different approach than if your ex just isnt that into you anymore and dumped you because they were bored. Each situation requires different relationship repair.
Here is one strategy that will work in many cases, particularly after a few weeks or more has passed since the break up. If things have calmed down and your ex no longer flies into a rage when you talk to them, this approach can work wonders. The approach is PLAY. Playing with your ex is a great way to begin to get them back into your life. By that I mean you call them to do fun things together that you think they might like. If they like to ski, you can call and say Hey, I know were broken up and all, but I want to go skiing this Saturday and need a buddy, will you fill in, no strings attached, just a ski day?
The key is to tell them right from the beginning that you know they've broken up with you. That way, they are less likely to be suspicious about your motivations. If they get that you understand and aren't trying to manipulate them or pressure them, they are much more likely to say yes. Then you go have fun and play together for a bit. The more you have some playtime with your ex, the more happily they will think of you. After a few dates, you may find yourself naturally getting back together.
Play can be a powerful tool for getting back with your ex. Whether its going to a museum or a ball game or to a dance club, you can probably think of some ways your ex might like to play with you some. Play is one of the best ways to bond or re-bond with your ex. There are other steps you may need to do first to get to a place where your mate will accept your invitation, but play can be a big help in getting back with your ex.
About the Author:
You can learn Powerful Proven Methods to get your ex back in a book about Get Your Ex Back In 7 Hours. John Laney teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get a free course here on Advanced Relationship Advice Help Secrets.
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