5 Secrets of the Female Mind
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The secrets to her mind have been unlocked and i'm going to share them with you. Knowing these will make you more attractive than every man she's ever met.
1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed
Have you ever gone out with a woman and told her all sorts of impressive things about yourself only to discover she just wants to be friends? As modern men, especially Americans, we are led to believe that women have a checklist and we need to meet their criteria. Truth is that a woman wants more than anything else to feel emotion. The male mind processes language more in terms of facts and outcomes where the female mind responds much more to emotion and empathy. The key is to create a way for her to feel something. For example, draw her into your world by sharing stories in a way that she can associate into; she can experience the story as you tell it.
2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable
Girls hate awkward moments and will do anything to stay away from them. If you aren't comfortable with yourself, there is no way she will be comfortable. Only then will she share herself mentally, emotionally, and physically. Steer clear of talking about sex, weddings and children when you first meet. And don't come off as try hard as that will make her uncomfortable as well.
3. Dont Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesnt Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional
When a girl gets upset, the things she says may not be what's bothering her. The main thing a woman wants from a man is reassurance. She needs to know you're there for her. Once she calms down, listen carefully and you'll be able to figure out what the root of her problem is.
4. She Is Just As " If Not More " Sexual Than You Are. Its Just Compartmentalized
We're not the only ones guys. Women love hot sex too. They're just a little more sexually complex and put all those urges into one place in their mind. When you unlock that spot she will be as charged if not more excited about physical intimacy as you.
5. She Expects You to Respect Her and You Better Respect Yourself First
This becomes more true when she shares her entire self with you. Trust and respect are essential. Never try to control her. Respect her by following through with promises. When she can rely on you, you know there is special bond.
1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed
Have you ever gone out with a woman and told her all sorts of impressive things about yourself only to discover she just wants to be friends? As modern men, especially Americans, we are led to believe that women have a checklist and we need to meet their criteria. Truth is that a woman wants more than anything else to feel emotion. The male mind processes language more in terms of facts and outcomes where the female mind responds much more to emotion and empathy. The key is to create a way for her to feel something. For example, draw her into your world by sharing stories in a way that she can associate into; she can experience the story as you tell it.
2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable
Girls hate awkward moments and will do anything to stay away from them. If you aren't comfortable with yourself, there is no way she will be comfortable. Only then will she share herself mentally, emotionally, and physically. Steer clear of talking about sex, weddings and children when you first meet. And don't come off as try hard as that will make her uncomfortable as well.
3. Dont Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesnt Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional
When a girl gets upset, the things she says may not be what's bothering her. The main thing a woman wants from a man is reassurance. She needs to know you're there for her. Once she calms down, listen carefully and you'll be able to figure out what the root of her problem is.
4. She Is Just As " If Not More " Sexual Than You Are. Its Just Compartmentalized
We're not the only ones guys. Women love hot sex too. They're just a little more sexually complex and put all those urges into one place in their mind. When you unlock that spot she will be as charged if not more excited about physical intimacy as you.
5. She Expects You to Respect Her and You Better Respect Yourself First
This becomes more true when she shares her entire self with you. Trust and respect are essential. Never try to control her. Respect her by following through with promises. When she can rely on you, you know there is special bond.
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