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Thursday, August 27, 2009

Dating Advice Just For Men

Posted by patrick

By Dell DeMarco

Most of the time, guys find dating as a challenge. Adding to it are the complexities of being a woman. Guys are sometimes unsure on how to please a girl, or do not know what she wants. This article aims to help guys rule out their anxieties when it comes to dating.

Women are deemed as mysterious. And this notion seems to be so intent on staying intact since no one is in authority to disclose what the mysteries are all about.

To continue with the topic, here you will find dating tips that will be good for you in your dealings with the girl of your dreams. In the end, you will gain better insight on dressing up and proper manners when on a date.

You do things well and you will see yourself as part of a successful relationship with someone in the near future.

Regardless of you situation, whether a guy who has been single for years, never been on a date yet, or just come out from a broken relationship, you will be benefited with these common guidelines that work well in the dating arena.

As a rule, be presentable. No matter who she is or where you two are going, always be appropriate with your choice of clothing and footwear. Pick out the right cut and shade.

Cleanliness Matters

Of course, styling and hygiene are very important too. Get a nice, clean hair cut and style your hair to perfection. Go to the salon if necessary. If you happen to sport a balding head, you can have a professional shave to leave you feeling clean and great. Try anything that you think will do you good.

You can seek professional assistance if you have a problem maintaining your looks. And do not forget the most important, your hygiene. Make it a habit to have a regular shower routine that will leave you smelling fresh all the time.

Knight In Shining Armor

Read books about manners, chivalry and courtesy. You should know that a woman's melting point is when treated with utmost respect. Be a gentleman and make her feel extra special. Forget all trace of rudeness. Act properly around her. Be knowledgeable about women's stuff such as fashion, jewelries, and bags.

Little information helps. You do not have to master everything.

Moreover, be aware of what's going on around you. Be up to date with current events as well so you will have a wider scope of topics to talk about. This additional knowledge will make you smarter.

What Time Is It?

Every time you go out on a date, always be on time. Tardiness is a big turn off. Also, women have the tendency to think of the worst. When you are late, many things may run on her pretty head. She may think you are not really interested and excited on going out with her, or may think of you as unreliable.

However, if you agreed to pick her at her place, do not be too early. Give her ample time to finish dressing up. You may arrive with five minutes allowance prior to schedule.

Furthermore, do not forget to throw neat remarks on your date. Women love this. Just make sure that you mean it and that it is not offensive or too much so as not to annoy or irritate her.

Have a two-way conversation. Do not steal all the limelight with the intention of impressing her. Listen to her story as well. You ask questions in order for you to know her more.

Being a good conversationalist also means being a really good listener. As much as you want her to listen to your story, she also wants the same from you. She too has a story to tell, so listen to her. Do not be selfish and talk only about yourself. Hear her voice and know what she wants to say.

Show Me The Money

Nowadays, it is obvious how women have changed so much. They even make an issue on who pays the bill when out on a date. Women are very independent now and wants to take care of most things including date bills. Naturally, guys will not allow this for they are used to the notion that guys should pay the expenditure when dating. Well, if your date insists that she wants to pay, fine. Go along with it but you have to pay at least half of the bill.

Kissing her goodnight is another issue specifically on the first date. Take note that there are women who do not like to be kissed after the date, while there are also those who feel disappointed when the guy does not.

To find out if she wants to be kissed or not, read her gestures. Or, wait if she will initiate.

If you do like the girl and wants to see her again, get her number. However, do not lead her on to believe that you will call her if you have no intentions of seeing or hearing from her again. If you are not truly interested for another date, thank her for a wonderful time, bid her farewell and walk on. On the contrary, if you want to date her again, let her know.

Dating is a whole new experience that can open up wonderful opportunities. With these dating tips and by doing things right, you have greater chances of a happy and memorable dating escapade.

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