Self Help Infos

Who's there to help you then your ownself

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Your Cheating Spouse - 5 Signs That Your Partner Is Cheating

Posted by patrick

By Marc Sandford

Do you suspect that your partner has been cheating? You may be experiencing a troubling intuition that things aren't right with your relationship. Our intuitive feelings about relationships are surprisingly accurate.

In fact, studies have shown that our suspicions about a cheating spouse tend to be correct. It always helps to have some objective things or signs to look out for that give support to our suspicions. After all, a false accusation can be very damaging to a relationship.

Here are five telltale signs of a cheating spouse.

1.) Unusual cell phone calls.

Look for unusual phone numbers on your partner's cell phone. An affair can't happen without communication and the cell phone is perfect for this kind of illicit communication. Check for numbers with frequent calls made at odd hours of the day or night.

2.) Increase in time spent away from you.

Has you partner been away at lot recently? How about a sharp increase in time spent at work?

Perhaps "business trips" lasting several days? What's important here is that the time spent elsewhere has increased dramatically, showing no sign of letting up.

3.) Greater money consumption.

Is money being spent on things that you never see or at restaurants that you haven't been to? If you have receipts with dates, can you place where you and your spouse were at the time? Were you together or apart?

If apart, do the receipts agree with where or what your partner said they were doing? Has there been an increase in cash withdrawals?

4.) An improvement in dress.

Has your partner's wardrobe suddenly increased? Is she or he buying clothing suited for social occasions? Outings that you never experience?

Is your spouse too well dressed when seeing a "buddy"? Maybe your spouse is overdressed when going out to the "usual places".

5.) Discrepancies and inconsistencies.

Do your spouses words and actions add up? Does your spouse change the details of his or her activities?

Lies are hard to keep up with. The liar will eventually slip up with their excuses and explanations. When you're alone, record specifics and details for your own reference.

Being cheated on is a very painful experience that can leave deep scars. Before confronting your spouse, make sure that you have your facts straight.

About the Author:

Related posts:

Comente!!


Helping Yourself | By Dicas Blogger e Códigos Blog