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Friday, May 29, 2009

Do I Have A Chance Of Winning My Lover Back?

Posted by patrick

By Isaac Asimov

Having a positive attitude will help you in getting your ex back. But most of the parted couples do not understand this.They do exactly what they should not do. Thats actually because you are in a state of emotional turmoil right after the break up. You can win back your ex, if you follow these 3 steps.

Take a break: Yeah, you need a break after your break up. Your break up being fresh, Taking decision regarding your future of your life will always be wrong, mainly decisions regarding love and relationship, especially planning anything to get your ex back. Stop thinking about all those love and feelings now. Unwind yourself Give a diversion for your mind to other things like hobbies, games, work, friends etc. Seriously you need a break.

No ex for now:

Most of the people think that the best way to get back with their ex is to ring them up a numerous time and tell them I can't live without you and love you a lot. This will be the most inefficient way for you to win your ex back. If you initiate the contact with themthen you lose your prestige before your lover This will throw you out of their hearts. Don't get desperate. Things when done desperately will not happen.

Steps to concentrate:

Now examine the hullabullos which caused your relationship to cease. Develop the areas where yourex needed you to improve. This surely impresses them a lot because action speaks better than words.. Change first, by this you will automatically impress your ex.

After making sure that you have changed yourself completely and dethroned all your bad activities, you can call your ex now. It would have taken some time for you to redefine yourself and you should have lost all those desperateness for him/her. If still you are a bit nervous contact them after some time.

When calling back your ex, just start up like an old friend greeting them and asking to hang out for a coffee. Dont talk about your previous love life. Talk about all those things in this world except your relationship. If your ex feels comfortable with this sort of relation then you can talk about your intention to start a new life with them

So you had got your answer for how can I win my ex back?

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